Official Weekend in Memory of Tmax

This weekend marked the official separation of Trish and I. So after 3 wonderful years together we have officially parted ways. It's easy to fight about things in a relationship and dump someone for any wrong doing out of anger or so called 'deal breakers'. With us, we never had any arguments, fights or wrong doings if you will. It was just a hard reality that it wasn't going anywhere and we really both needed something more. I've always valued friendship in relationships and agree it's a key ingredient, but there's also gotta be chemistry involved to spark that, and I think we both felt after living together that there was something missing.

It was a bit rough living with each other for the past 3 weeks knowing that this weekend would finally come. A few ups and downs as trying to live separate lives yet still entangled in the same house. Probably the hardest part was the division of material things, you know like the kind of stuff like who gets the 40 year old Virgin dvd, who gets the ironing board, leave my scotch alone!, and the fact that we had to re-meet up to get the HER sports bag which I used to put MY dress shoes in, which she mistakenly took back to HER flat!!

That's the reality when you meet up again outside the relationship and you look at them with fresh eyes and think, goddammit you look fine.......ok out of brain out of brain 'do-rit-do-did-do-roooooooooooo'

It is with mixed feeling but for the best of both of us, and I wish nothing but happiness for her as she moves on. We had a great run and in my heart she will always have a place in it.

dtm